This is day 1 of my dating sabbatical. What did I learn today? I took a step back and finally listened to what some women have said to me for years. I flirt too much. I flirt without even knowing I’m doing it. I never really paid attention to that statement. I thought I was just being friendly. I was wrong. I DO flirt way too much! Maybe without even realizing it. Maybe I’m unintentionally offending the girl I’m with then. I noticed this today at the gym. On my way to work. At work. Texting. Emailing. I flirt a lot. Too much. A girl I dated recently said to me “You have enough personality for the both of us.” That stayed with me. She wasn’t trying to hurt me, she was just being honest. I’m listening now and I’m going to work on this. Fellas, like T, you need to get the flirting under control.